Recently there was a person in my life, in fact make it two people in my life who I used to call friends. Two grown men who knew how to open their big gaps to borrow from someone close to me. Their debts went on for like years and till date not settled. When the debtor chases for the cash, they turn around and point fingers at me for upsetting theit pathetic lives thinking that i sabotaged their lives for giving their numbers. In the first place, I gave away their numbers from a innocent call when Jon called. Not knowing they had given up their fu;*king gambling habits, i gave away this sissy's number as I thot it was any normal call with regards to their gambles. Turned out to be a debt they owed like 2 yrs ago which obviously was not repaid. Imagine taking 5k from someone for two years, not paying back, keeping quiet and blaming a lady for giving away your number. Smsing her early in the morning to blame her for a debt taken on their own accord and being able to pay. And the person who got blamed was of coz, if you are out there, face the music and not blame someone for a loan u took. When u took the 5k and put it into your pocket, it was so bloody easy so face it like a man and pay ur dues. MOney does not come from the Sky, so what even if you did not tell on Jon when he was in trouble, one extra charge wont make a fucking difference, your not telling is not worth 5k.
And the bottom line is i do not gain from ur debt. What u owe has nothing to do with me at all. U go face the music and pay every cent back. Be glad no interest was charged, and get out of my life, I dun need men who act like sissies, borrow, cant pay and talk a load of shit. I hope you go to the hell, pathetic!
As for the other fella you should know who u r, everyone knows u owe a debt due to your ex gf's help. Pay the debt back fast and nobody will nag at you, imagine earning so much and finding it diff to pay a hund a mth. a 4k debt with a bal of 1k aft 4 years. You sit and pee, its really pathetic that you like owing favours to others. U are such a pain to me that I have to sms and apologise when ever u pay late. Why dun u wake up ur idea? At least now I know why I left, Thank God wisdom came to be early. :)
Hearts Dear
10:07 PM
Changed my entire skincare from Skin food to Origins today, was thinking what I should do as i was waiting for Hubby to come pick me from work, as uusual he is late. Went Paragon to get new bedsheets for CNY and a toy for Jonath. My adorable scored 5/5 for his first spelling in School and I was giving him a little reward as promised. Of course this is not someting that I will always give him as it would be spoiling him in the long run. Bought Jonath his favourite transformers, I hope he does not have it yet as Kel n I have lost count of the number of Tranformable vehicles and toys we have bought him. Well i considered as I wa snot supposed to shop for myself. But after some deep consideration from City hall to Orchard, I decided to get a change of skin care and hair care for myself. Got Grandma the Checks and Balances Frothy Facial Wash as well and quite a few items 2 pamper myself once again. I really should quit this shopping, It ain't doing me any good at all. But at least for now I am happy till the bills arrive. Well hubby has agreed to sponsor like 50% so at least I have a fast reliever. Hehe. And these are items that I have added onto my list today. 1. United State Balancing Tonic - This tingly-cool, retexturizing tonic is dedicated to the proposition that all skins can be created equal. Origins state-of-the-art exfoliators slough the flakes, sweep pore clogging debris and smooth rough spots. Laminaria de-shines T-zones without stripping or stinging, and Soy Protein protects moisture levels to prevent parching. Disunited dry and oily areas come comfortably together as one - refreshed, refined, rebalanced. Reinstates skin's proper pH too for a user-friendly feeling. There's also aromatic Bergamot, Spearmint and Lavender to add pleasure to the process.2. Make a difference Skin rejuvanating Treatment - This botanical breakthrough proves that not all visible skin damage is forever. Helps repair an aging appearance due to UV exposure.3. Outsmart Daily SPF 25 -Nature’s own Titanium Dioxide helps block both UVA and UVB rays to help keep skin out of harm's way. 4. Modern Friction Facial Scrub - Gently removes sluggish cells, uneven patches and surface skin damage. Mops up free radicals. Refines, polishes and smoothes without the irritation.For all skin types 5. Clear Improvement Charcoal Mask - Draws out pore-clogging impurities for a deep-down clean. - I felt really clean and good after applying it and washing it off. Thumbs up !6. Knot Free Shampoo - Nature's caring cleansers gently wash away dirt and debris as moisture-rich Panthenol puts the breaks on breakage and pumps up strength and thickness. Your locks are left silky-smooth and swinging with shine as delicious Peach, Lemon, Black Currant Buds and fresh Peppermint relax the rest of you.7. Knot free Finishing Rinse - Snags smooth, tangles unwind and combs glide through hair non-stop when Origins special knot-detanglers free hair of troublesome entanglements while Peach, Lemon and Peppermint relax the rest of you.8. Spring Fever Frangrance - Origins gathered spring's most uplifting aromas including Artemesia, Apple, Marigold and Linden Blossom and tickled them with tangy Mandarin, lush Cypress and sparkling Watermelon to capture the irresistible sensation of a sunny spring day. More than a time of year, it's a totally great state of mind. <-- Very sad as fragrance will be discontinued very soon, so I got 2 bottles.Yup so this sums up my shopping list for my skin care from Origins. On top of that, I already hv the checks n balances facial wash, hair treatment and never a dull moment scrub which was bought last week. So looking forward to better skin in days to come, and top of that I would highly reccommend frens to go Paragon's Origin to look for this sales person by the name of Farrah, She is friendly, truthful and will not lie to u to close her sales. And she also has great knowledge for the skin as well which is impt as we are buying items to be applied to the face. ;o) And although there was no promo when I went today, she would be calling me to give two sets of free gifts which is for Feb's promo. So I will def go to her again for my skincare needs, who doesnt love free gifts??? Kekekek
Hearts Dear
11:53 PM
Hearts Dear
9:07 PM
Been wanting to at least a few words for the last few times but believe it or not I have not had the time to even log into my msn what more to blog? I can believe that we are already coming to the end of Jan. Been having lots of ups and downs in the past 1 mth, my asst left me but i survived as i have another now and in the midst of recruting another girl to cover me during my absence. Been having lots of work in order to remain contactless during my leave of absence which is my three mths of maternity. Well this sums up my downs for the month except the fact that my work is still piling due to the contract renewals but I am handling it well and living every day with a smile <-- Just trying to be positive.
The upside in life is of coz my shopping which never fails to bring a smile to my face. tsk tsk and I thought i told myself to stop shopping as my New Yr resolution. It sure is sad, haha but I am enjoying every moment of it. Well over the weekend, I was very irritated with the Tuscani bcoz its so low and I am not exactly in best shape to be sitting in such a low car but honestly what choice is there? My colleagues all told me to stop complaining. I should be happy that I have a car to sit in. Well thats quite true but hey I am like typical sporean ok, complain n complain lo.
The up side in the month would be the shopping I did this weekend and every other day that i just wanted to destress, I went to get a breast pump for i am sure u know what. Bought 4 sets of infants clothings for my new arrival. Bought her a little cute attire in case she comes before CNY. Well, she has skirt n blouse already but being kiasu me, she can wear it anytime we bring her out I guess. Looking at her stuff, I think she has enuff to wear for at least 6 mths now. Its not just me buying. Grandma is also buying and so are the women in the family. And ppl who know me all know I have my aunts and grand aunts. Haha. My poor hubby has not gotten anything new though. I guess Its time to go Polo Ralph and get the Polo T's he wanted for CNY. Before he complains that I have not bought anything for him.
During my shopping sprees this past one month, I got myself new skincare and hair care from Origns. Changed my make up collection to Bobby Brown. I m really enjoying both of it. Its fantastic and the $$$ are running fast too. :< Well I used to promote Skin Food for the face but after using it for about 2 mths or so, I realised that its realli mild. I am still using the masks though bcoz its really pampering and destressing for me when I am back from a long day in the office, but its make up and other skin care and hair care products is realli mediocre and my skin really needs something more intense than that. I bought the Checks and Balances facial wash which is really frothy and it leaves my skin tingling clean and smooth after each use, I bought some really powerful facial scru with dead sea minerals from them too, I cant rem the name of it and I am at my in laws. Use it like once a week to exfoliate. And I also bought the Rich Rewards Intensive Moisture Treatment for the Hair and Scalp. Its fruity smelling and it contains Wheat Protein Bonds to restore the hair's healthy look and feel. It has Yeast to promote proper growth, Vit A & E added too. I am going to use it to 50% this time and intro it to Berdette if its really good. Bcoz we are both sad ppl who suffer from Dry Hair. I wanted very much to buy the entire set like the moisturizer and toner. But i did not bcoz Hubby was beside me and he like glaring at me bcoz i still had half strength at home. :< Not fair!!! But none the less, think I am going back tom aft work, I will get some nice Toner and Moisturizer for whitening purpose from Origins. I Hope Hubby does not read this at all. After getting my skin care, I went on to get some nice make up items from Bobbi Brown and I am their member now. Will start to go for my free lessons soon. I realli have this passion for make up which everyone thinks so too. I have tons tons of make up. But I think the quality ones are still from Bobbi and Estee and Clinique. I managed to get my two way cake, shimmer brick, lipstick, gloss, eye shadow, Mascara from Bobbi this weekend. Am so happy got myself a nice new leather make up bag from them too. Was quite a good deal. The two way cake is really fine. Much better than the skin food powder i was using. Skin food smelt really good. Its made of Lemon but its mild and its meant for Koreans as such the shade I was using was like the darkest, Imagine that! Made me feel like I was charcoal black.
Well this sums up my weekend. I hv to pen off now. Going to have some dessert. :) Yummy!
Hearts Dear
8:41 PM
Met up with sister and brother in law over the weekend. Mum came by too. I am so glad to see Mum now so down to earth and back into normal mode. And mum is even retiring to help mei look after Syazana. It definitely is a eye opener to me as Mum has really changed into someone i cannot recongise. She is a home maker now. Sis's initial decision was to put baby with Mum in law at Yishun which i fell is not very healthy as baby would be a weekend baby. Well I am glad now everything has fallen into place and Baby would be with mei full time.
Time flies and mei has given birth for two months and is going back to work on 18 Jan 2007. Its like the 3 mths of maternity is over just like that. And its back to work again. Mei will be very sad to go back to work because you have to go apart from your new born. That was never easy for any mothers. I had a difficult time when I had Jonath as well. I wanted very much to go thru childhood with him and share every moment with him, but that is never possible for working mothers.
Well this sums up motherhood and what working mothers go thru... :(
Hearts Dear
12:07 PM
